9 Things About the Meaning of Ajumma (아줌마) You Need to Know (2024)

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After surviving war, dictators and economic collapse, ajumma are fresh out of hoots to give.

If you’ve been jostled by one at a grocery store, you know what I mean.

Find out the origin of the word and how to spot one here!

We also cover:

  • how to address an ajumma without incurring their wrath
  • what a Yakult ajumma is
  • combat skills of ajumma
  • and more

Let’s get started!

Korea went from feudalism to modern day capitalism in a little over 100 years. There’s a big difference in how older and younger generations think and behave. Korean society has changed so much in so little time.

Korean has two iconic titles for middle-aged men and women. They are:

  • Ajumma (아줌마)
  • Ajeossi (아저씨)

Read on to find out more.

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Ajumma vs. Ajoomma vs. Ahjumma

They all mean the same thing, but “ajumma” is the correct spelling according to romanization rules.

For the purpose of this article, we’ll use the word ajumma, since it’s more common and correct.

What does ajumma mean in Korean?

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Ajumma (아줌마) means a “middle-aged woman, ma’am or madam”, and can be used by anyone, but with caution.

It originates from “ajumeoni (아주머니)” to refer “female relatives” who are one generation older, such as 숙모 (sukmo or the wife of your father’s younger brother), 고모 (gomo or your father’s sister), and 이모 (emo or your mother’s sister), which are all translated as “aunt” in English. (Yes, Koreans like to get specific about kinship.)

Since 1910, people started calling any married woman, ajumeoni or ajumma.

In modern Korean society, ajumma is recognized as a relentless woman devoted to her children, in both positive and negative ways.

Summary
ajumma refers to a woman who’s married with children.
But in reality, people use it on anyone who just looks like ajumma.
So, it’s offensive and rude to call a single, youngish woman ajumma. You can tell because their hair is still long and they aren’t wearing hiking clothes.
You can call them ajumma if you’re looking to pick a fight.

What do ajumma look like?

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The typical ajumma has short and black hair that’s tightly permed to preserve their wavy, voluminous hairstyle for as long as possible. This is to save time, money and energy.

Ajumma often wear boxy shirts, colorful patterns, leopard/snake print, cubic studded clothes with excessive embroidery and platform shoes.

They also enjoy wearing vivid hiking clothing, even when they’re not hiking.
(You’ve probably seen both ajumma and ajeossi in hiking clothes traveling all over the world.)

How do you refer to ajumma without offending them?

Although Koreans use the word, “ajumma” frequently, we tend to use it when referring to them with others and not directly to their face.

At a restaurant

You’ll see a lot of ajumma working at Korean restaurants. In this case, try calling an older female waitress, “emo (이모 or aunt)“. It sounds way more polite and friendly.

At a school or hagwon

If you’re a teacher in Korea and need to have a parent-teacher conference, you can call an ajumma, “oo 어머니 (student’s name + eomeoni)“, meaning someone’s mother.

In general situations

You can use ajumeoni (아주머니) to be more polite in most cases.

If you want to respectfully call a middle-aged woman, you can also use “사모님 (samonim means madam, missus, teacher’s wife, someone’s wife or superior’s wife)” or “여사님 (yeosanim means a married woman at least 40 years old, or boss’ wife)“.

김여사 (Kim Yeosa or Mrs. Kim)

Kim Yeosa (Mrs. Kim) is a term derived from “the wife of a wealthy boss who drives a nice car”.
Over time, it mutated into a broader term referring to a “horrible ajumma driver”.

Kim Yeosa usually ignore pretty much everything, including traffic lights, lanes, brakes, traffic flow, common sense, etc. They make you wonder how they even got a driver’s license in the first place.

To be fair, men can be seen doing the same things but more aggressively.

If you drive in Korea, make sure to watch out and avoid these types.

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What’s Yakult Ajumma (야쿠르트 아줌마 or Yogurt Lady)?

Yakult ajumma is a door-to-door salesperson at hy (formerly Korea Yakult). You can see them all over Korea.

Their official title is actually “Fresh Manager” in English, but with Korean pronunciation. They wear a yellow suit with a yellow brim hat, and drive an electric cart with a refrigerator. (this car was originally a simple bag full of drinks, then a cart.

It’s been upgraded over 50 years into basically a transformer with its own temperature-controlled cockpit.) They present the perfect warm image of ajumma.

But, they’re more like an unstoppable force of nature.

Yakult ajumma will deliver yogurt everywhere, including apartments and a mountain top. No one’s safe from their reach. They’re Korea’s version of the mailman who works in rain, sleet or snow.

They can enter any company freely, like an “authorized information collector”. (Yakult ajumma is known to have a free pass, even during protests with heavy police presence).

Combat skills of ajumma?

The combat power of ajumma is notorious. If the U.S. has gangsters, Japan has Yakuza, and Italy has Mafia, Korea has jopok (조폭 or mob) and ajumma.

According to old records, ajumma in Joseon Dynasty beat a tiger with her bare hands. It may sound like a lie, but it’s not uncommon to find ajumma beating up tigers on the Veritable Records of the Joseon Dynasty. (it happened more than once)

There’s also a record of a foreign visitor trying to stop a fight between a police officer and a passerby during the Late Period of Joseon, and he got beat up by the passerby’s wife (ajumma).

Farmer’s markets and public transportation are their preferred territory and places where their combat skills shine the most. If an ajumma picks an item first, it’s better to give up and choose another.

Ajumma are known to use their powers for good. One saved my friend from a mugging by shouting at the assailant until he slunk off in shame.

Where does this power come from? A combination of toughness from raising a child in Korea and a sense of revenge for the years of being looked down upon for being a young woman.

Ajumma gain status in Korea once they have children, so for them it’s time to live life to the fullest.

Be wary of sharp elbows and a low center of gravity ideal for poking and pushing.

FAQ

What is auntie in the Korean language?

You can call older females you don’t know on the street, ajumma (아줌마) or emo (이모) if you want to get on their good side.

Are ajumma rude?

Yes, some ajumma can be rude. The stereotypical ajumma is loud, tenacious, rude and relentless. Ajumma can also be nosy and nag a lot. These types are considered jinsang (진상 or obnoxious) ajumma, so not every ajumma is like this.

There are still a lot of elegant ajumma full of jeong too, they’re just overshadowed by the woman who stole your seat on the subway.

Is ajumma an insult?

When kids say ajumma, it’s socially acceptable and not insulting. But, it can be an insult if adults refer someone directly that way. Especially, calling a single youngish woman ajumma is very offensive and rude.

You can call them ajumma only if you want to pick a fight. In this case, maintain eye contact while slowly saying “ah-jum-mah”.

What does ajeossi and ajumma mean?

Ajeossi (아저씨) refers to a middle-aged man, usually married and in their 40s-50s. On the other hand, ajumma (아줌마) refers to a middle-aged woman, usually in their 50s-60s. (Women are more sensitive when they’re called ajumma.)

How old are ajumma?

Ajumma are usually in their 50s-60s, but it really depends on how they look. If someone looks like an ajumma, she’s considered ajumma in Korea. It’s more of a state of mind and younger women can be ajumma too.

How are ajumma created?

It all starts with the perm. A woman in her 30s gets one because she’s overworked with kids and wants to try something new. She gets a loose perm because heaven forbid, she looks like an ajumma. Her friends and coworkers compliment her and it all goes downhill from there.

Work piles up and that perm gets tighter and tighter to save time. Next thing you know, she’s wearing leopard print pants and passing you on a hiking trail.

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9 Things About the Meaning of Ajumma (아줌마) You Need to Know (2024)

FAQs

What is the meaning of ajumma? ›

Ajumma (Korean: 아줌마), sometimes spelled ajoomma, is a Korean word for a married, or middle-aged woman. It comes from the Korean word ajumeoni (Korean: 아주머니). Although it is sometimes translated "aunt", it does not actually refer to a close family relationship.

What are the characteristics of ajumma? ›

Ajumma originally means married middle-aged women with children. They are famous for their uniform hairstyle (the “mom hair”), a penchant for soap operas or K-dramas, and hatred towards the sun which they fight with their (un)fashionable choice of sun visor caps.

What is the meaning of Ajusshi? ›

아저씨 (ajusshi) Literal meaning: “middle-aged man; mister” Is used to call: A man in his forties to sixties.

What is the age range for ajumma? ›

What is an ajumma really? In Korea by definition, in the broadest sense, it's a middle-aged, married woman, up to 60 years old.

What do Ajummas wear? ›

In the warmer months, when the sun is shining, ajummas always have a tinted sun visor that they wear that looks like something out of a sci-fi movie. It has great functionality for blocking the sun and hiding their identity. Ajummas also love a good set of mismatched clothes.

Can you call your boyfriend oppa? ›

Does oppa mean boyfriend? Oppa simply refers to an older brother/man in a friendly tone. It can also mean a boyfriend or husband. You need to read between the lines in order to tell which one.

What is the meaning of ajumma and Ajusshi? ›

As we learned in KWOW #42, ajooma is used towards middle-aged women. Ajusshi is the term for middle-aged males. For those who love Lee Minho, this is for you.

What are the traits of Korean family? ›

Koreans are very family-oriented. Family members are very loyal to each other and dedicated to maintaining their nexus (characteristic of collectivist societies). In some traditional/rural social circles, families can be so defining that they are perceived as having a collective face .

Can you call a girl oppa? ›

While oppa is used exclusively by females when addressing older males, nuna is used exclusively by males when addressing older females.

What is the male version of Ajumma? ›

Ajeossi (아저씨) refers to a middle-aged man, usually married and in their 40s-50s. Ajumma (아줌마) refers to a middle-aged woman, usually in their 50s-60s.

What is my Korean age if I am 13? ›

3. How to Say Your Age in Korean (Updated in 2023)
Birth YearAgeKorean
201212 years old열두 살
201113 years old열세 살
201014 years old열네 살
200915 years old열다섯 살
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Can you tell me my Korean age? ›

The formulas are: if your birthday has passed: Korean age = your age + 1. if your birthday has not passed: Korean age = your age + 2.

What is the Korean age rule? ›

Previously, the most widely used calculation method in Korea was the centuries-old "Korean age" system, in which a person turns one at birth and gains a year on 1 January. This means a baby born on 31 December will be two years old the next day.

What do South Koreans call their grandma? ›

“Halmoni” in Korean

As briefly discussed above, in South Korea, the most common way to say grandma in Korean is 할머니 (halmeoni), also often spelled as “halmoni.” This specifically means grandma in English.

What is another name for Ahjumma? ›

Roughly equivalent to madam or ma'am, ajumma is, according to the National Institution of Korean Language, an informal way of saying “ajumeoni,” which has the same meaning with a more respectful implication. “Calling someone ajumma feels like you are talking down to that person.

What is the difference between ajumma and Ahjumma? ›

Ajoomma vs. Ahjumma. They all mean the same thing, but “ajumma” is the correct spelling according to romanization rules.

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